I am a very understanding individual... I don't do drugs and not interested in anyone that does.I do drink but not a drunk, I enjoy long drives and walks, parks, beaches ,movies, traveling, and dining out. but I do not mind staying in and cooking for a nice comfortable evening at home with the right person. I'm happy with myself. My life is centered around my family, friends and those I love. A HAPPY personal harmonious life is what I value above all else. I'm filled with all sorts of delicious goodies, romantic at heart, personality, dress fashionable, fun, funny, playful, intelligent as well as street smart, affectionate, out going, open minded, down to earth, adventurous, open to new ideas, . I don't believe two wrongs make a right, I value your opinion, and I am respectful towards others. I charm people with my sense of humor, . Expect fun, special treats, little indulgence and my irrepressible charm. I dislike misleading or be misled. I tell you how it is, nagging and fighting is a waste of time and energy, don't want the headaches, heartaches or drama. . It's been a long time since I've dated and I am not looking to rush into anything fast, However, I want to find my friend, companion, lover, wrapped in one. A woman that wants to have a monogamous relationship without the drama. she must have her own place as I have my own place. A woman with a great sense of humor, fun, funny. I want to haility to tease, be playful and joke around. . Call you out of the blue for no reason (if we're dating) Kiss creatively & passionately, to the point that our livers quiver lol. Have a social conscience and enjoy a good debate once in a while.. Know the difference between flirting and just ''being friendly'' ,Eat a big meal and fearlessly eat dessert without guilt. Take naps next to each other. , be my best friend, do things together, be by each other through good and bad times, open and up front with each other without judgment, romantic, passionate, with a sense of humor. I'm not the type of man who pressures, nags, or stops a woman from having her freedom im not like other men. I believe freedom is not losing contact with old friends or family members but going out with them as individuals and as a group. you must understands I like my freedom too. It brings us that much closer too one another ,If we trust and have honesty with one another it shouldn't be an issue , He should be thoughtful, creative , affectionate and enjoys life.